Archive for October, 2008

Football/Soccer is for Wussies-Play Rugby

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I stumbled across the above link that you will need to copy and paste. I thought it was pretty funny, and a sad commentary of just what has happened with soccer/football in 2008.

In the past few years, I have grown more and more disgusted with the cynical nature of soccer/football with all of the whining, diving and simulation. Back in the late 1970’s when I first fell in love with soccer, if a player like Kenny Dalglish or Kevin Keegen went to ground, chances are it was a burly English, Irish or Scottish defender who laid him out. In the English game, it was a mark of pride to try to stay on your feet in spite of contact. Sadly, that is not the case anymore. It seems like everybody is trying to “earn” a penalty kick, or a yellow card for an opposing player.

That is one of the reasons I love rugby. If somebody is lying flat on the ground, there is a bloody good reason they are lying prone. You would never see somebody fall to the ground like they were shot if somebody were to shove them like the shameful bit of play acting the Brazilian Rivaldo did to get a Turkish player tossed from a World Cup game back in 2002. In the last World Cup in 2006, Portugal’s Cristiano Ronaldo seemed more interested in diving that actually trying to play the game. A very sad thing because when he wants to play, he is the best player on the planet, and he has outrageously sublime skills.

I admit, I still do watch the occasional football/soccer match, but I have to confess, I don’t watch as much as I did a few years ago.

Give me rugby anyday.

Election Thought for Today

With 6 days to go before Elections in the US on November 4th  http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/us_elections_2008/7693987.stm, the candidates are kicking up the amount of political radio on TV commercials into hyper-drive. I am so sick of the political adds, which are really nothing more than expensive name-calling contests that are not a whole lot better than the average Kindergarten spat between schoolkids. Both sides have spent MILLIONS of dollars on these evil-spirited assaults on our senses. Given the fragile state of the US economy, the numbers spent on radio and TV political adds is nothing short of obscene. Even my very conservative, politically-oriented wife is sick of them-and this is a woman who thrives on talk radio the way a fish craves water.

I will be so happy when we get back to “normal” commercials for douches, erectile dysfunction and herpes treatments. (Although the “Viva Viagra” add campaign has forever ruined the Elvis Presley classic “Viva Las Vegas” for me)

Whoever wins this election is going to have to somehow unify Americans and make a team out of one seriously pissed off electorate in the US and try to let the healing begin. The brief period of American unity, brotherhood and cohesion after 9/11 is but a distant memory in this country.

Rugby Odds and Ends….

The Killer B’s, our B team with my Metropolis Rugby Club lost their playoff game this past weekend to Fond Du Lac, Wisconsin 25-10. Their season is done, but I think by any measure, it has been a very, very successful Division III season. #1, it clearly has swelled the ranks of our club, #2, numbers at practice have been way up, #3, in the first year of playing a D III schedule, they made the playoffs in our region. That is no mean feat. Congratulations to Dalton, our B-side coach, who did such a good job with the side-and managed to get a run in a few games at flanker, as well.

The A side has our last home game this weekend at Columbia Park, in Northeast Minneapolis against #1 ranked Pearl City from Iowa. I am off on Friday night, so I will be able to make to the game this Saturday. Our club is having on Saturday evening, a halloween themed party at Legends Bar and Grill in Minneapolis. The theme is 80’s TV and movie personalities. My wife already has Star Wars costumes (Return of the Jedi came out in the early 80’s), and she will come as an Imperial Officer. My son and Andrea had the excellent suggestion of having me find a woman’s swimsuit and blond pigtail wig, and then go as an East German swimmer. I almost was going to go with that idea, but it does not really fit the theme of 80’s TV or Movies…not unless you say that the East Germans were on TV during the Olympics. Even then, the true heyday of the East German artificially enhanced female swimmers was in the 1976 and 1980 Olympics. I don’t know, I might get my hair done in a flat top, get some cammo paint, and go as Arnold Schwarzenegger from Commando.

My Metropolis Club has it’s AGM, Annual General Meeting on November 15th. We will vote on awards, and whatever else comes up. Last year’s decision to have the B squad play a DIII schedule was actually the subject of a lot of debate-more than a few players were against the idea. Luckily, the people like me who wanted to give it go were able to vote for it to come to pass. And as it turned out this year, it ended up being a very good decision, indeed.

Well, it is a sunny, beautiful fall day in the Twin Cities. I think I am going to go for a bike ride and go to the gym. It’s ‘Arm Day”, and it would just seem a pity to not take in the nice weather and go for a bike ride on the way to working out.

How do You Say “Currie Cup” in French?

The answer to the above question is “La Coupe de Currie”. 


French fly-half Frederic Michalak, who already has won Le Bouclier de Brennus  and the Heineken Cup with Toulouse added the South African domestic crown to his impressive resume` today, as his Natal Sharks beat the Blue Bulls 14-9 in Durban today.

I had the chance to watch this tight match with my Saffa friend Jacques. It was a good game that was tight all the way.

Michalak had a hand in the tries by Pineaar and Steyn, and also contributed a conversion after Steyn’s try. Michalak’s biggest contribution was getting a finger on Bryan Habana’s shoelace to trip him up when it looked like Habana was going convert and intercepted sharks pass into a try. Michalak was able to just trip Habana up, after he had run about 60 meters, and the Sharks were able to dodge a try that ended up being the difference in this game. 

As well as Michalak played, I thought Stefan Terblanche, the Sharks Fullback, was my man of the match.  Michalak was certainly a key man for the men in black from Durban. 

With his Currie Cup medal, Michalak joins fellow French internationals Olivier Roumat and Thierry Lacroix as being the third Frenchman to win a Currie Cup. It’s a nice way for Michalak to end his time in South Africa, as he now returns to France to play with Toulouse.(Who beat Stade Francais today in Paris for Stade Francais’ first lost in the Top 14 this season) The interesting question will be where Toulouse coach Guy Noves will play Michalak-He already has David Skrela playing very well in the fly half position. Will he use Michalak as a super sub, or try him at fly half or a different back position?

With his gutty performance under pressure today in Durban, Sharks fans have to wonder just what might have been had Michalak been able to stay healthy during the 2008 Super 14 season, as injuries kept him out of most of the Super 14 season. Still…Michalak can hold his head up high as he packs his bags to head back to France for the rest of the 2008-09 season with Toulouse. 

More to Life Than Rugby

In the 2007 Rugby World Cup, the poster child for the French National Team was their number 8, and sometime second row, Sebastien Chabal. With his Rasputin-like beard and long dark hair, Chabal scored a couple of tries during the World Cup that left defenders lying on the pitch like broken trees when a twister has blown through. The shots of Chabal staring down the New Zealand All Blacks performing their Haka before France’s upset win in the quarterfinals is one of the lasting images from France 2007.


Chabal has played his club rugby for Sale Sharks, in the English Premiership the last couple of seasons. If reports out of England are true, this 2008-09 season may be Chabal’s last one in England. Interestingly enough, the 8-man’s reason for leaving has nothing to do with a dispute over money, teammates, playing time, coaching philosophy, or the usual reasons that leave a player ready to pack his bags. In this case, the reason is family. Specifically, Chabal has an older child who is school aged, and goes to school in France. His wife and younger son are both back in the land of Voltaire and Malraux as well. The stress of being separated from his family is beginning to weigh heavily on Chabal.

It’s true that the game of rugby has changed a great deal in this era of professionalism. But fame, Pounds and Euros don’t change the fact that the game is played by real people, with real emotions and problems. As a family guy myself, I can see where it’s pretty tough to play club rugby in England, when your family is back in France. It’s true that there are people in this world, like British, American and Australian troops who are stationed in places like Afghanistan and Iraq, who spend a long time away from their loved ones in very dangerous, unpleasant places who are away from their loved ones, as well. These British, American and Australian troops, to name but a few putting their lives on the line, don’t have the option of opting out like Chabal does with Sale. It’s one of the things that comes with the territory when one decides to become a soldier, sailor, Marine, or airman.

It’s pretty tough to criticize a man who simply wants to be with his wife and kids-even though he has fame and a pretty good living playing rugby in England. Childhood is a very fleeting thing, and each day you are away from your kids, you miss a part of their growing up.  As somebody who came very close to having to be away from my kids when I almost took a job in Saudi Arabia, and had some temporary assignments when I was in the Army Reserves that kept me away from home for a few weeks, I understand that for a lot of us guys, we are nothing without our families.

I hope Sale Sharks and Sebastien Chabal can get this worked out to make a deal that is satisfactory to all parties. It’s rare when a professional athlete can remind us of just what is important in life, but the news about Chabal’s desire to be a husband and dad first, is a welcome departure from a lot of the other off-field news in rugby and in professional sport.

Can I Have Some Vaseline to Go With That Bad News?

The excitement just never ends here in New Hope. I found out today that my wife was let go from her job. It was totally out of the blue-very frequently that seems to be the case in the US.

Look, it could have been worse. I am glad we were able to enjoy a nice weekend together and have some fun. If this news had happened last week, we probably would not have made the trip-and that would have been a shame. Losing a job sucks, but compared to people out there finding out they have cancer, or their kid has a serious health issue, or a psycho-social issue like chemical dependency or autism…All I know is that things can be a lot worse. That is not hubris-that is a fact.

For the short term, it is a financial bite. For the long term, I know that my wife and our family will land on our feet in this deal. I felt that my wife’s now ex-employer really took advantage of her the last couple of years, and physically and mentally ran her into the ground.  If a person treated her the way her work treated her, you would call it an abusive relationship.  I know my daughter and I in the last few months have raised some concerns about what her work has been doing to her. I even had suggested that she dust of a resume` and see what else is out there.  We’ll just have to tighten our belt for the short term-like a whole lot of other of my compatriots are doing right now. We have more than a couple of other of our good friends like Jeanna Marie and Nancy who are looking for work, too.

I wrestled in high school. I don’t think there is any other sport that is a metaphor for life. Sometimes things happen that are not fair. Sometimes you get taken down or get put on your back. You have to get back on your feet, and keep plugging away. I also found that a loss does not have to define you. It is what you learn from the experience. Just like the wrestler’s family has to make sacrifices when the wrestler is trying to make weight, or is a bit prickly around the house after a tough loss,  the kids and I have to be that unconditional support. We cannot fill out the resume` or do the job interviews for my wife anymore than the wrestler’s family can help them out on the mat…but we can still let her know that we love her, and we know she can do it.

We’re in your corner, honey. Go get ‘em.

Is That an M-16 in Your Hand, or Are You Just Happy to See Me?

It’s not often that I come home from work after a night shift and run smack into a developing news story.

When I was driving home, I Noticed police cars with lights flashing on opposite ends of 49th Avenue, between Winnetka and Boone Avenues. I had to go a block up to 50th, and then go around to Zealand to get home. When I got home, I took Buddha and Basil for a walk-well, I tried to, we did not get very far. We got about a block east on 49th, when we met an M-16 toting Minnesota State Highway Patrolman, who gave the terse signal that we should do an about face and go back to whence we came. I noticed a KSTP news car parked on the area of Zealand at the end of the cul de sac, and looked up to see a KARE-11 helicopter overhead.

I got on my cell phone and called my wife, and told her to put the news on to see if they were showing any snippets of what exactly was going on here in my neighborhood this chilly (32degrees F, 0 degrees Celsius) Tuesday morning.

By the time I got back to my house and looked at the morning news, they showed a whole bunch of police cars, an ambulance and other emergency vechiles, right by my friend Jacque’s house on the corner of 49th and Winnetka. Apparently, somebody at around 50th and Winnetka started firing shots at around 6 AM.  The police set up a perimeter around the house and the neighborhood-remember, my area borders onto Cooper High School, so the police have the added responsibility of not just keeping the neighborhood safe, they have a school of over 2,000 students that they need to be aware of, as well.

As I sit writing this, I still hear the choppers overhead. I look at my front door and still see police cars with lights flashing. This thing is not resolved yet. As much as I would like to follow this, I need to get some sleep-I will just have to look at the news later today when I wake up to find out just like everybody else.

Still…a pretty unsettling way to come home from work.

UPDATE ADDENDUM:
I just woke up and checked the news. Here is what went down:  http://www.kare11.com/news/news_article.aspx?storyid=527432&catid=14

Three people apparently were taken into custody, and nobody got hurt. It will be interesting to find out more as police question these suspects.

THIS, is Waverly, Iowa

Today I celebrate 48 years on this planet in Waverly, Iowa-home of the Wartburg College Knights, and where I met and fell in love with my lovely red-head.


We are staying at a lovely bed and breakfast, The Sherman House, in Charles City, Iowa.  It is a wonderful place run by a very nice couple. The bed was huge and comfortable. The room has a hot tub. The breakfast we had this morning was wonderful. All in all, I give the Sherman House a MAJOR thumbs up.

We got into Waverly last night, so that we could have a look around.  We ate my favorite eatery, the Other Place II. Ran into a classmate and soccer team-mate of mine, who was also son of the President of Wartburg College when I was in class here.

We had to avoid a small crisis as my wife got her hair-do from Friday all wet while we were in the hot tub last night.(no further detail is needed). My wife needed a hair dresser ASAP this AM before we left Charles City. With her hair, flattened and pressed to looking something like what my wife’s hairdresser Tabitha left it yesterday, my wife could face our classmates with increased confidence. She need not have worried: She looks PHENOMENAL compared to our classmates.  I must confess, I don’t feel so old after comparing myself to my male counterparts. Rugby and weightlifting really do help keep you young in body and spirit.

The new athletic complex here at Wartburg College is state of the art. I am more than a little envious of the fine facilities they have in their workout complex, a veritable iron den. 

The fog is lifting, the sun is out. I am looking forward to having a fun time the rest of this homecoming weekend. In looking at how nice the campus is, it is nice to know that my alumni dollars are hard at work.

Random Travel Thought for Today…

If Helen Keller fell alone in the woods, would she make any noise?

Back to Where it All Began…

Unlike the previous couple of years, not too many cool trips in this rapidly vanishing year of our Lord, 2008. The trip Ian and I made to Texas does not count, because that was not a pleasure trip-my youngest sister Amy was in the ICU down in Plano, and for a little while, I was not sure If I was going to lose my sister or not. In the spring, my wife went down to Chicago with Rodrigo and Rachel, but let’s face it, any trip that involves spending any time with my mother in law is NO vacation.

Circumstance and depleted finances have both conspired against any fun trips so far this year. Certainly, we have had a lot on our mind with Andrea and Duncan joining our busy household, and Rachel finishinig up school and getting ready for her turn at that life-changing statge in life that occurs to people when they go away to univeristy. That’s why I am looking forward to this weekend’s trip to northeast Iowa more keenly than most people would be doing.

2008 marks our 25th anniversary of me and my wife graduating from Wartburg College, where we met and fell in love.  I think given where my wife and I are at with our jobs, and in kind of a transition year in our lives, what with us becoming grandparents this summer, I think going back to where it all began will do us some good. I could not find a reservation at a hotel in Waverly, so I booked a couple of nights at a bed and breakfast in Charles City. I think in the end, that will be more romantic, and a lot calmer than the din that will be in taking place in the hotels in Waverly.

I know getting away from responsiblities around the house will do us both some good. Any change in scenary will do. I am kind of restless and bored with work-I interviewed for a nursing job with the VA Medical Center yesterday for their new Spinal Cord Injury unit. My poor wife really drives herself hard, both physically and mentally with her job as a funeral director. I joke sometimes about her day beginning when somebody else’s day ends, but in all seriousness, she really needs a break from trying to help people out in their time in need.

It will be great to see the changes in Waverly, and on the campus at Wartburg College. They have a new, state of the art fitness center and pool, which I am sure will make me green with envy when I think about the sorry excuse for a weight room we had in the early 80’s when I went to school there. More improtantly, I think every time I go back to the little campus on the banks of the Cedar River, I get back in touch with the young man who hoped to travel the world with my love at my side. I think at this point in my life, getting in touch with the part of me that had unbridled optimism and hope will do me a world of good.

I think people from time to time need to get re-calibrated…I am at that point right now. I really am looking forward to this trip-and that is not an Iowa joke.